I was Disconnected from Myself

Hi friends, first of all please accept my late wish for Happy Dussehara, Dhanteras, Diwali and Children’s day.

I was feeling disconnected even when I was updating my facebook more frequently now a days and spending more time for getting more powerful networking with the existing friends and also with the new ones and they were also responding well.

So what were the reasons behind the feeling like this ?

I think inner illness was giving me such type of feeling and I was like disconnected from you, from my personal blog even when I was overwhelm with the news and ideas to share with you all on the daily basis or I can say that I was able to update this blog twice in a day to let you read more than your expectation and think about me and my activities for completing the communication by commenting.

Yes I was ill for a whole week, I think that event came just after I wrote the previous article you might have missed that was entitled “Threatening Dengue is On Rise in Delhi“.

Even after around a month I’m not feeling good as a normal Robinsh feels and works for his online ventures anyways now again I’hv to visit New Delhi because my college is about to open again after a week long holiday on behalf of Diwali the festival of light.

What is that is I have to do to become active again ?

I’m already on a good diet because currently I don’t have to think about the great home made food made by my mother and also other un-productive works like cleaning my room, washing the clothes etc

Other works to do :-

  • Visiting my friends
  • Sort of fun and entertainment 
  • Meeting new friends who were connected on FB
  • Interviewing a college dean for my next project
  • Bla bla bla
Hope these activities will help me to become fresh and productive again and I’ll start enjoying my lonely stay in the capital city of India where I do live for my studies.
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Threatening Dengue is On Rise in Delhi

Peoples who lives around me reporting they have dengue, 1-2 cases everyday and they are getting “hospitalized” what is that is my greatest fear.

I don’t know how it feels to be a Dengue victim but I don’t want to feel anything like being hospitalized.

According to TOI in an update published around 4:30 and now it is 5:05 that 39 new cases have been found in the city and that makes total of 835 victims what is really a big change from last year total of 641.  

Assuming Mosquito’s like Snakes

I know that every mosquito will not cause the Dengue but I can’t analyse that which mosquito bites me so whenever I see one it looks like snakes and I feels after it’s bite no one will come to know that I’m dead or alive here alone in this new place.

I’m cleaning my entire room all the time and not letting water to log anywhere near, also using the mosquito killing sprays and all but they are not in control and comes to bite me don’t know how.

And that’s the reason Dengue is threatening me again and again, daily.

7 Day’s More to Leave this Deadly City

No doubt I don’t want to stay here anymore but my classes are on (bad news) and my train reservation is shifted from 5th to 2nd (good news).

Till then I have to be safe and I’ll by following some simple rules to be protective from the mosquitoes like :-

  • Wearing full clothes
  • Avoid water logging  
  • Using mosquito repellent
  • Using mosquito killing sprays
And others as advised by my friends or the victims who have recovered.
An Advice for future Victims 
After a little bit consultation with a physician I came to know that he was willing to say that students who are getting their report of confirmation carrying dengue virus and living the city for their home town to be treated are doing mistake because small cities finds it hard to provide real time reporting of the patients condition and that also becomes a major reason when a Dengue patient dies so don’t go home, stay here and call someone from your family or friend to support you at the hospital – yes go and get hospitalized in hospitals like SIR Ganga Ram, Fortis, Max etc
Private hospitals will charge you more but you will not be in fear of losing hope in the absence of report and further operation, decisions as doctors takes it all serious. And at other places where you can get well without spending more than thrice of your monthly expenditure could be risky for your life. 
Anything YOU want to Add ?

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How I’m Saving more Time to Concentrate on Blogging

Now I have more time to write killer blog article (s), interact with the advertisers, write ebooks, preparing for launching a course for my blog readers and etc

But how ?

1). By leaving my previous room and disturbing roommate
Yes now I live alone in a one room set in Munirka, New Delhi. 
No now this time I’m not preparing my own food and subscribed to a food delivery service but only bad and biggest challenge here is I don’t have a wired broadband internet connection and using Reliance 3G dongle to be connected with my entire activity online – to get the situation in detail you can read this article

2). By Un-Subscribing from Email Updates

Actually since last 2-3 years after I came to know that Blogging is the Best way to make Money Online I subscribed a 100s of blogs who were doing well and making a living online to learn from their experiences and today I found that even after learning a lot I’m loosing a lot of precious time reading their blog post updates what always comes in my personal email account and someday that crosses even 100 in numbers.

So I decided to remove them and concentrate on my own projects.

And now I unsubscribed from the updates of Copyblogger, Steve Pavlina and even almost all of that list of 23 sites I was reading regularly.

Even now I’m getting 20 to 50 email alerts daily from the bloggers and have to deal with them in this week to not loose the import emails of the advertisers or my clients who helps me to grow online.

I’m feeling very sorry after un-subscribing those great bloggers but it is the time to move ahead and start writing and learning from own experiences or the entire life will pass on being a learner while I have also to become like them and that will only come to reality when I would take my steps out and announce to be a guru of any particular topic I’m good at and helping the students to learn from me and make their life more successful.

Why I Can’t be Social Animal, Know 4 Benefits of Having an Unsocial Personality [UPDATED]

Previously I had written this article entitled “Why I Can’t be Social Animal, Know 4 Benefits of Having an Anti-Social Personality” what was not right according to one of my best friend and cousin (who is unsocial like me) and hence she was aware of the better word and corrected this article by replacing the word ‘Anti-Social’ with ‘Unsocial’.  

So what is the difference between Anti-Social and Unsocial Personality type ?

  • Anti-Social Personality – A personality type that can cause damage or harm to society.
  • Unsocial Personality – Where a person don’t cares about getting company of others. 

Do you know why a lonely person can’t be social as much as you are, here in this story you will come to know that how I did a try to become social after coming here in New Delhi but suddenly my past best friend made me to think that “you can’t be social yaar“, wanna know how she did so ? then continue reading I am going to elaborate the same in this article below. 

Why I Can’t Be Social Animal ?

Because people around me or any lonely person will never ever give him/her even a single chance to come out and live like they should, to see how ? keep scanning the lines below.

Image Credit – Nlimmen

Actually it all starts within an institute from where I am pursuing my graduation in management and it was really surprising for me that I was able to make a friend circle, performing good in almost every subject, my parents feels that now I will be able to make my career as I want to make, and one other and most strange thing I saw in my own personality that I was mixing very fast with almost every faculty member who were facilitating me with my batch mates.
Question.- Any idea how it all happend ? specially in my case who never thought to talk a girl of his own age group, who never talked with any senior,teacher,faculty or even with my own parents by directly watching in their eyes due to several kinds of real or virtual fear.
Answer. – Because I was just acting to be a social animal but everyone knows that there is a deep valley in between the word actor and the real hero, and I was never a hero – so here in this try my acting got only 1/2 star rating out of 5.
Those 19 Days what Made me Again an Unsocial Person
From the day one of April 2012 me and one of my batch mate decided to prepare for next month university exams for what we were already informed by means of schedule that was already pasted on the students notice board and out respective examination centre was also somewhere in our memory.
When I was preparing for the Elements of Insurance in the mean time she was dealing with the Employee Relations & Marketing, side by side I was also looking at English and Prose but the Financial Accounting was creating a little mess for both or say for most of the student due to late start and irregular class with a faculty who was not elaborating the subject from the basics even after getting aware of the fact that me, my past best friend and also some other students were never ever touched this subject before.
Twist Comes Here
During these preparations we also bunked our college for around 1 week and when finally we all decided to join  the lectures again, things gone wrong but how – 
On second last day when we had to collect at the college, immediately we (other than my past best friend) took a decision to join the college on the same day to attend the lecture as well as to consult some problems (what came during our examination preparations) with the concerning faculties without informing my past best friend because we thought she will not come that day and also will convince us not to do so.  
And on the next day ….
My past best friend came and she started with various burning debate to the main topic where I “her best friend” not informed her about the previous day class and in the mean time during the debate I did another mistake and told her that it was planned by me and the batch mate with whom I was preparing for the upcoming exams. 
Means I poured the petrol over burning fire and that burned myself the most. 
Most Hurting Gossips for Me 
Now you know that I was not getting time to spend with others, the batch mates and specially with the past best friend and in response they started gossiping over me and my batch mate what was really a dangerous part for me but most dangerous for her because she might even face some misunderstanding in her own relationship with her partner.
And I can’t be a person responsible for ruining someone’s life just because of the gossips. 
What are Benefits if I’ll go Unsocial 
Being lonely might be stressful for you but I knows the same status can boost someone’s productivity in his/her professional and I’m a live example for you.
Benefits of being social :- 

  • I’ll be able to concentrate on my studies
  • I’ll be able to concentrate on my blogging business 
  • I’ll be able to avoid fights – with the peoples around me
  • I’ll not create misunderstanding between a couple  

Many more were there in mind but I thought it will hit your lonely mind and you will also like to share best of them in the comments below.
Final Words   
I don’t know what you might be thinking now but don’t think that I’m weak in managing relationships because I accept that I’m really very weak in that part of life and hence would never ever try again to go social so me and people around me will feel happy atleast during professional meetings with me.

YAMAHA Bike Showroom/Service Center in Palam, New Delhi

After washing clothes and having my lunch I was planning to take some rest for night shift over blogging but at the same time received a call from Mr.Arun Iyer a college senior and a good friend with an ethical mind something like mine who was coming nearby my room to get his bike serviced and wanted to take me on the ride and yeah I accepted the same.

His bike Yamaha FZ was not running smooth and he was complaining about the gear and brake what is the main component to do check everytime before taking it out in the traffic because it can cause major accident to bike as well as the rider.

Finally we got back the bike in around 1 hour of wait in their waiting room watching news regarding the scam in security department and a tribute to Sachin Tendulkar organized by the Ambani’s in Mumbai, India.